If you’ve ever found yourself in a misunderstanding with a partner, friend, or loved one, chances are you’ve heard—or said—one of these phrases. They usually pop up when we feel misunderstood or hurt by someone’s words, or when someone takes offense to something we thought was completely harmless. Communication is often cited as the cornerstone of a strong relationship and even couples who love each other deeply can struggle with miscommunication. Why? Because there's often a gap between intent and impact.